How many messages do you send?

I pretty much do it in bursts. Every few months I'll get the crazy notion someone might reply, so I will send out four or five.

And then no one does, so I get depressed, put gibberish in my profile for a couple months before repeating the cycle.


http://www.okcupid.com/forum?low=1&tid=15195933531215671604#comment_9147539224633405403

I got one of these again yesterday

I got one of these again yesterday, some guy trying to be helpful saying my pictures were terrible*. Which I tried to delete without reading, but I could see the first line.

This is getting ridiculous, I get 2-3+ of these messages a month, sometimes well meant (just saying I need better pictures), sometimes people just flat out calling me ugly. I just want them to stop already.


*And for the record, these pictures are terrible, but they are also the best I have, it's either use them or have no pictures. I literally have 200 pictures of myself on my digital camera, these are the best.

Just fucking leave me alone already, people, I know I'm ugly, I don't need to constantly get it rubbed into my face. Well-meant or not.

I Know I should be used to it, but shrug, I'm not.


http://www.okcupid.com/forum?low=1&tid=14126779742281954406#comment_9215445304641528901